life and its loci points

I yearn for my freedom and for some things to remain just like how it was when I was single. I yearn to be self sufficient and independent in all arena. Companionship is appreciated but my wish list is getting clearly cross-connected. Sigh. My two immediate desires are to always remain self-sufficient to my contentment and become an all rounder in cuisine and driving. God help me achieve em ALL of my wish list at the earliest.