I am amazed at the teeny bopper. How easy to indulge her and how easy to rue her? Good that the heart is not yet made of stone, but somewhere it definitely would hurt the girl. So its wise that she decide and convey the decision as soon as she can and move on. Just coz of one instance, telling not to rush yet. But that one incident is enough to kill the bopper completely inside out. It has been killing for one week already and been suggesting possible options to not overdo it.
And yet, after trying all options and not finding the right instinct except for exhaustion, I'd advice the bopper to move on. :) After all, life goes on and there are new starts always.